Starting A New Chapter

Rockinrob
November 10 2006, 12:39PM

I commend you on having done it this long. But I'm TOTALLY with you in that....YOU'VE GOTTA LIVE, TOO...and hopefully; comfortably! LOL!

Anyway, best wishes with your ventures as you begin a new chapter in your life. Having turned 40 recently, I can appreciate and understand where you're coming from. I, too, am looking for the next thing and I'm waiting on The Lord for guidance.

Again, BEST WISHES.

Cafetino
November 10 2006, 12:41PM

Congratulations on your new found freedom. Let me be the first on here to wish you the very best. I really appreciate how well you've represented our community and hope the next chapters of your future are wonderful.

Karmatic
November 10 2006, 12:51PM

Wow! Things really have changed alot in this past week..
But change can be refreshing I guess. Keith your resume' should read like a book of inspiration to anyone who reads it.......Best of luck

Thanks for taking us along for the ride..

Nyah Molineaux
November 10 2006, 1:03PM

Dear Keith:
I am very thankful for the work that you have been doing for the past 15 years, but you need to move on. I guess this is a sign that as a 26 year old and other young people need to take the charge on these issues. I hope that everything is going well for you, and I pray that you will accomplish a lot.

Thanks.

Trent
November 10 2006, 1:07PM

Blessings for the best of life to come for you. You have done a great job and ispired many.

Anthony
November 10 2006, 1:22PM

Keith,

Thank you so much for all that you have done for our community. You have been such an inspiration for me. I applaud your service to this country and your willingness to encourgae "us"/me to fight for what is right and just.

When I think of you, this song from Bob Dylan comes to my mind. This is my pray for you, my Brother.

May God Bless and always Keep You. May your wishes all come true,May you always do for others, And let others do for you. May you build a ladder to the stars
And climb on every rung, & May you stay forever young.

May you grow up to be righteous, Grow up to be true,
May you always know the truth, And see the lights surrounding you. May you always be courageous,
Stand upright and be strong, May you stay forever young.

May your hands always be busy, May your feet always be swift,May you have a strong foundation, When the winds of changes shift. May your heart always be joyful,
May your song always be sung, & May you stay forever young.

Jeff Hobbs
November 10 2006, 1:31PM

Keith we love you and support you and thank you for all that you've done. You are so selfless in what you do. There is no accolade we could give you to show you how much you are appreciated. Hopefully someone will pick up the torch and run with it. Darian are you listening? :) We will always support your work. You mean so much to us. I know personally you are my hero. You are the person I have admired most in my own life. I will always be proud that I know you and have had even a small part in helping you with the cause. You have educated millions of people with this site alone. Move forward and take over media, television, books, maybe even your own national talk show! Thats what we need. Montel Williams can't do it forever!:) I know you feel a breath of fresh air with the new political climate and hopefully you'll be back here supporting a new presidential candiate in two years!

andre allen
November 10 2006, 1:33PM

wow i am speechless as i come and read your page and i see that you are retiring. well its has been great reading your website every day and seein the day to day changes that you have done to make the black LGBT community a better place for everyone. I congratulate on 15 years of success. Much sucess in future engagements.

Derrick L. Briggs
November 10 2006, 1:35PM

So what's next Keith?

Kevin C
November 10 2006, 1:40PM

Keith,

I commend you for helping to bring our issues to the forefront for so many years. Your service has been both a blessing and inspiration for all.

So sail on with your life and may this new journey bring you so much joy that you laugh OUT loud everyday.

See ya on your next book tour!!

Kevin C
ATL

Doug Cooper-Spencer
November 10 2006, 1:49PM

Yes, the end of a chapter, not a lifetime. You know I understand where ur coming from. At 42 I burned out, but today at 52 I still respond to the matters at hand- - just not in the forefront anymore. You've done so much for our community and will be sorely missed. But, hey, I know you, you won't be far from us... ever.
Take care of yourself (and see you on the other side of the fight, because take it from me, it never ends).

Doug

Derrick from Philly
November 10 2006, 1:53PM

One of the recurring issues on this blog and other black gay blogs, is the issue of images of black gay men--the images of black gay men in the media, and in the minds of black folks. I've battled with other posters about what they call the "stereotypical" images of black gay men. I always say that if y'all don't like the "stereotypical" images then y'all need to come on "out" and show the black community that every gay black man isn't a stereotype(aint that really just another word for QUEEN?). Well, Keith, I think that's just one of the contributions you've made over last 15 years. You certainly aint no stereotype. You've helped straight black folks to see that there are other "types" of black gay men--other than the so-called "stereotypes". Handsome, articulate, great presence, and a brain...oh, and a body, too. There's only one place for you to go from here: HOLLYWOOD!
Move over, Denzel.

Kevin McGruder
November 10 2006, 2:25PM

Keith,

Thank you for your leadership and all the work you've done over the years, particularly in raising the visibility of black gay men in a thoughtful way. Good luck in this next phase of your life.

Marcus
November 10 2006, 2:33PM

Your years of hard work will live on, continually amazing and inspiring new generations. You are in the Source, the ALL. You will enjoy the adventure and you will bless and be blessed.

manchild1
November 10 2006, 2:34PM

Congrats on turning a new hopefully fruitful chapter
in your life...some of us talk the talk,but do not
walk the walk and for this,many in the struggle are
very grateful to you....may your coming blessings be
many....

qtmia
November 10 2006, 2:34PM

I hear ya Keith...you are a very smart pogressive brother. I take care of yourself and then you can really take care of others. And there are other ways to make a difference. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, FIRST! KEEP GOING FOR AND MAKING YOUR DREAMS REALITY!!
CONGRATULATIONS ON TAKING TAKES A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE SCARED TO TAKE ... CHANGE IS GOOD TO HELP YOU KEEP GROWING AS A PERSON.

Basil Hennely
November 10 2006, 2:52PM

In this life all we can hope to do is leave a mark and hopefully make a difference. In your twenty years, you have definitely done just that. Thank you for being a voice in the midst of so much silence. I can't wait to witness what the next twenty hold for you!

Karen S.
November 10 2006, 2:58PM

I am wowed by this announcement and completely understanding and accepting of it -- as a social worker for many years, I understand having to make changes as one's personal needs and priorities shift. As a straight white woman, it has been fascinating and educational to read this web site and tune into so many different views on critical issues (and I do believe gay rights is one of the cutting edges in this country). But, in the words of Ghandi, "Be the change you wish to see in the world" -- that is activism enough. Peace and blessings.

Darian
November 10 2006, 3:16PM

Keith,

I can recall hearing the news of your retirement first hand when we spoke a couple of weeks ago and I'm still finding it hard to believe. You know what an inspiration you've been in my life. I can't thank you enough for being unafraid to tell the truth even when it was not a popular choice.

You've been a wonderful example of a fearless leader that I hope one day I will become. Although you're closing this amazing chapter in your life, I'm sure the best is yet to come.

So now the baton has been passed...

lboogs5
November 10 2006, 3:31PM

Congratulations Keith!
I wish you continued success in everything that you do.

LBoogie
Boston

Terrence
November 10 2006, 3:37PM

As time evolves, we evolve. Best of luck to you in all of your post-activist endeavors, Keith. I wish you the best. Thanks for being on the front lines. And thanks again for your support.

loi wade
November 10 2006, 4:10PM

Keith, you don't owe anyone a DAMN thing! It is time to look out for number one. I know you would like to, but you can't save the world. Take that gorgeous partner of yours and dissapear for a while. And learn to be a little selfish, hell! That 'starving artist' mentality is highly overated, TRUST! But do me a favor, please? Try and post once a week or at least twice a month. I don't know if I could stand it if you NEVER graced us with your genius. Take care babe.

Errol
November 10 2006, 4:17PM

Keith,

I have never posted a message on your website on any topic that has been mentioned on this site. The reason being is I believed that you would continue to do this amazing work you do for ever. That is so sad that I thought that way. For the past 3yrs I have come on your website religiously and learned something about my country, my world, the net, and most importantly what is affecting my gay black men. Everyone I come in contact with who speak of strong black male leaders I always mention your name. Not everyone knows who you are, but that just open up opportunity for me to wear them out with tells of your work in the gay community. Keith, I thank you from the bottom of my heart!! I was 17yr old when I stumbled across your site and I truly believe w/out it I would still be stomped on many topics concerning myself and sexuality. I have never met you and probably never will but I truly am your BIGEST FAN!!! Take care of yourself sir. Good luck with your new chapter...

James Davis
November 10 2006, 4:30PM

Keith-- I was initially sadden to hear of the new course you are taken in your life--not because I felt it was a bad decision but for more personal reasons. All my years exploring and coming to understand my own sexuality, I have known of your presence on the battlefield for our community. Having you there made a difference in my life and helped me discover my life's purpose- Martin Luther King, Jr. once said, "Everyone has the power for greatness, not for fame but greatness, because greatness is determined by service."

I turned 40 yrs. old this year(for those who don't know) it's a different level of maturity and outlook you gain at this age i.e. you begin to think more seriously about your retirement and financial security and what really matters in life after the "dust has settled"-- so having said that, your decision makes perfect sense to me.

I look forward to seeing you in the new chapters of your life and God speed on your journey.

CPAPhD
November 10 2006, 4:31PM

Best wishes Keith. I concur with the statements of the others.

JERRY
November 10 2006, 4:39PM

GO 'HEAD KEITH, GET THAT PAPER BOY...AND YOUR OWN CAR,AND YOUR OWN HOUSE, AND YOUR OWN DOG...HELL, YOU MIGHT AS WELL, HAPPY "NEWDAY"!!!

maxqthrust
November 10 2006, 5:05PM

Thank you for all you have done. i know it is hard and thankless at times and it seems that you are pushing up against a brick wall that looks like the great wall of china but the fruits of your labor will come into view as soon as we as bisexual, gay ,lesbian, and transgendered people pull away from the shadows and demand our rights as people. learn to physically defend our selves when attacted. learn to stand tall in the church halls and be unashamed and make our money shout out victory. job well done good and faith brotha.job well done.

Angela
November 10 2006, 5:33PM

Lord knows I'm not one to leave comments but today I just had to. I have felt spirit has been moving in you for a long time to get you to move in a different direction. You've just been hard headed and I don't mean that any way but in a spirit of love. Your whole life has been in preparation for this next step and in this next step you will not only serve this community but communities beyond as well and you will serve beautifully. You have what is needed to do so.

I applaud your stepping out in faith and with courage. That too is necessary. It is not always where others think you should be or where you think you should be but more where spirit guides you. That's where you'll do your best work.

Many blessings to you because I believe God is with you.

Jay
November 10 2006, 5:37PM

Thanks for all you have done, your site is a place I visit almost everyday and I have shared it with others. I am anticipating and very excited about the good and abundant things that are waiting for you. And I hope you will keep us posted on the adventures of Keith Boykin, whatever you do, do not disappear that would indeed make us sad.

Later,

J

j. brotherlove
November 10 2006, 5:42PM

*raises a glass*

Well done, young man (we're about the same age). And now the challenge is for those who have previously relied on you to act on their behalf; those who waited for your signal or approval (when they knew something wasn't right); to act and fight back for themselves, wherever they find injustice.

This was never a one-person show. But you did an admirable job of showing how it could be done, full time, without much complaint.

Bring on that next chapter!

G-Money
November 10 2006, 5:50PM

Dear Keith--I was an unhappily closeted Black Man more than a few years ago. And then, the catalyst that set me on an introspective journey that allowed me to share my to share my truth with my family, my son, and my closest friends, was my reading of "Many Rivers To Cross." That book set off a series of "get real" thoughts and events that set me free! I just wanted you to know even though you are younger than I, (I'm 48-years young),you are my "Hero!" And you helped me to see myself, so others could, finally, see me!

All the best in the world to you and yours in your well-deserved retirement! You've more than earned it, Hero!

Peace & Positivity, Bruh!
G-Money

Liquid Fonts
November 10 2006, 6:27PM

Yea Keith!!

For someone who has positively affected so many people's lives including my own, you more than deserve it all.

Thank you

Riddler
November 10 2006, 6:30PM

Keith, I discovered this site less than a year ago and it has been a source of inspiration, introspection and activism. I feel out of touch if I do not set aside time daily to see what is really going on in the world from keithboykin.com.

Thank you so much for all that you have done. It is my sincerest wish that you accomplish all that you set out to do in the future. As someone else has already stated, 'It's been a fun ride.' Best wishes.

gs
November 10 2006, 6:43PM

Best wishes in your future endeavors. I am sure you'll be just as successful in your next professional endeavors. And may you enjoy the prosperity that awaits you!

alicia banks
November 10 2006, 7:21PM

congrats keith!

rest well...u have earned it!!!

i just turned 43 and just learned to rest...

life is too short to toil forever

glad u wised up earlier

love
ab

Steve
November 10 2006, 7:52PM

Hey Keith. You've done a lot, and it's much appreciated. I predict you won't be able to give it up, though. Being an activist is something that is part of one's being. You may redirect yourself, but you have an activist soul. May your path be littered with success, whatever endeavor you undertake.
Much love.

James Brown
November 10 2006, 7:59PM

My Dear Keith,

One of the absolutes in life is CHANGE. It happens not because of but instead of. I am delighted that you have
developed self-realization. I am delighted to salute you for all the great work you have done on behalf of the
Black/Latino gay nation. Godspeed to you on your new explorations and exciting adventures ahead. Always remember that "life is not given to the swift, but to those who can run on and see what the end might be."

With warm regards,
James Brown
Dallas, Texas

Jonathan David Jackson
November 10 2006, 8:34PM

Thank you for your excellence and blessings always.

cmoney
November 10 2006, 10:11PM

Wow! Didn't see that one coming! If anyone deserves rest and a reward, it is you. I hate to see you change course, but I am consoled by the fact that whatever you do, you will do it to the max and bring positive change to the people you touch as you have done for me and so many others. Whether you know it or not, you are a true hero to so many of us and we thank you for all that you have done. You have truly made a difference.

Texas76132
November 10 2006, 11:12PM

Keith,

I'm glad to see you make this move because it's what you want to do. There is nothing bad about looking out for yourself. You've accomplished so much and I admire you. I will miss your presence but I take comfort in knowing that you will be happier with your life going forward. Best wishes. I'm very happy for you.

DeterminedDelta
November 10 2006, 11:15PM

Keith You are FINE! and equally just as articulate... I could care less if you were straight or gay, YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY and living your life without anyone passing judgment on you. I applaud and congratulate you for LIVING life YOUR WAY, you inspire me to do the same, to follow my dreams and to NOT let what others think or say stop me. I look forward to meeting you - in the next few years when our paths will definitely cross.
Until then, keep doing your thing and stay blessed.

Israel Wright
November 10 2006, 11:45PM

Stay strong on the battlefield. You have long proven to be a good soldier in the front of the action.

What ever you decide to do I am sure success will be associated with your endeavor.

I will still do my part to capture those historic moments for you.

Best of all Israel Wright

Mel Smith
November 11 2006, 12:00AM

Keith, thank you for helping me and others. You are a social activist at heart.

meow
November 11 2006, 12:01AM

I am going to miss this fierce warrior. But at almost the same age, I get it. I am a professor, and am trying my damndest to cultivate the new generation. I hope I have an itty bity impact so that we have a new Keith. Keith, I have sent students here for a long while, and they always learn a lot. You are an amazing person. Thank you for all you have done and all that you are. Go breath my friend . . .

pc
November 11 2006, 1:26AM

keith, you deserve the best! thank you for the countless, thankless days you've spent on the battlefield. please know that it has not been in vain. you inspire me to walk taller and be better. peace and blessings.

Kweku
November 11 2006, 1:36AM

Keith, thanks for a wonderful and selfless job! It takes a lot of courage and selflessness to do what you do. I never knew the details of your activism until I read this piece. Truth be told, many of us wouldn't have survived the way you did through all the years of sacrifice but you bore it will such courage, fortitude and faith. I tell you from the bottom of my heart that as you leave this stage, you can only go forward and trust me, so much success awaits you because you are very gifted and also because you are capable. Your good works will light your path in the coming days. I wish you the very best and I love you a great deal. As we say in Ghana, 'ye ma wu mo' meaning 'well done'.

playboyadonis
November 11 2006, 3:42AM

Keith, you are at at that point in life where you have done and experienced but now you are going after what you think will truly bring you happiness. I hope to get to that point.

Whatever it is that you choose to do, do it well.

boo bri
November 11 2006, 4:40AM

Like the New York Times I expect to read you daily, however, I know this was bred purely out of selfish reasons. As always, everything has an expiry date, and you are now it, nevertheless, I wish you all that is good and lot of success.

Ed Vince
November 11 2006, 5:36AM

Thanks Keith for your informativeness, inspiration and insight. If it werent for my friend in Minn. who sent me your book on the DL here in Amsterdam, I wouldn't have ever discovered your literary talents or your website.

Life is great and so is your future!
Continued success in your endeavors!

Vince
Amsterdam, NL

LaFontaye
November 11 2006, 7:36AM

Keith I first met you in '96 at the Black Images Book Bazaar here in Dallas Texas. I was 28 (going on about 13) and that was a day I shall soon not forget. You were amid a book tour for your outstanding book, "One More River to Cross" and I had never in person heard such an articulate, fearless, unapologetic and upstanding African-American gay male speak so candidly about what it meant to be a black gay male in this world of insufferable heterosexism. That day changed my life for the better, as by the time I found myself walking away from your reading, (signed book in tow, of course) I was fit to take on the world as an emancipated, proud black gay man - and for that I thank you greatly Sir. You have touched the masses in ways beyond that of which you could ever probably imagine Keith. Go well my fine brother and may that which is of God continue to keep within you ~

Greg Bautista
November 11 2006, 7:54AM

Keith, I commend you on this wonderful decision of growth. Your wisdom has always been inspirational to me, and today is no exception.

I suppose for many people, the traditional definition of "activist" involves limited wealth and numerous non-monetary sacrifices - such as foregoing a vacation because a big rally is coming up, for example.

Here's an interesting "what if?" for us to ponder: What would happen if society were to rethink the conception of "activist," redefining the role based upon the state of mind, consciousness, intent, and action which are necessary to do well for the bettermend of our society?

How many thousands would more willingly self-identify as activists!

Since you will remain involved in politics, I presume you will remain "an activist at heart." So I look forward to learning from you (yet again) as you demonstrate something powerful: How can we make a difference while at the same time achieving maximum financial, spiritual and personal growth? Best regards to my hero!

unbeachedwhale
November 11 2006, 9:30AM

Ooooh! I tell you, I understand. Activist, writer, academic, consultant, etc . . . I have worn those hats in many places and for a couple of causes. I am really glad that you have raised up the issue of support (money) and the larger community in this blog post. It is funny how people assume a certain amount of security comes with "visiblity" or a certain level of "erudition".

Societies pays the most to those that it values the most. And who gets the monetary accolades and who doesn't bothers me to no end. But as the children in some of my classes have said "Don't hate the player, hate the game."

So, I must first thank you for being so giving and straight forward in the work that you have done over the past couple of years. And, congratulations on your new chapter and I hope that this blogs stays open even if it is to talk about Keith Boykin in a different light.

TITI
November 11 2006, 9:56AM

You are still seaching for you place within the universe, but you have already done a great deal. Now you are moving to another level. I pray that the change is not due to dissolution. It will break my heart. Please do not regret the path you walked on to REACH THIS MOMENT. Been an activist is never an easy goal.There is alaways price to pay. Only passion and the spirit of justice can get you through.Indeed to many things has happened recently,some good and some very bad. But above all may The change within you PRESERVE the essence of the man you are. Now you can use your great potential to make you happy, it's you right to do so as a human. I wish you the best of what life can offer. WE LOVE YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.

deejay
November 11 2006, 9:57AM

When we stop wanting to evolve, we truly stop living.

Congratulations! I wish you all the best.

milt7
November 11 2006, 10:24AM

GOOD FOR YOU KEITH.WE ALL LOVE AND ADMIRE YOU.AND THAT WILL CONTINUE. OF COURSE YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO GO IN ANY DIRECTION YOU CHOOSE,WHENEVER YOU CHOOSE.JUST KNOW THAT YOU HAVE MADE AN IMPACT. A MEANINGFUL IMPACT . GO FOURTH YOUNG BUCK!!!!

Carlton Smith
November 11 2006, 12:20PM

Keith --
Thank you for providing all you have for so many years! I turned 42 this Election Day and have spent the past 17 years prepping for nonprofit work (i.e. divinity school), working in the field (mostly churches) or writing about people in it (as a journalist). The work is very demanding and very rewarding. I affirm you in your choice to follow new paths ... I will have my first novel on the market by spring, in time for DC Pride.
Looking forward to seeing you at a book-signing (yours or mine) soon!
Peace and joy,
Carlton Elliott Smith
Arlington, Mass.

Sharif
November 11 2006, 1:09PM

Keith,
Thanks for all your time and efforts you have put into our community, good luck and god bless.

Sharif
Las Vegas/Detroit

Jon Singleton
November 11 2006, 3:37PM

Your many years of work in community activism will be remembered. Good luck and all the best as you enter uncharted endeavors...

Cheers:*) and Aloha pumehana -- Jon

bemused
November 11 2006, 4:03PM

good for you Keith too many of us spend time trying to win approval from people who hate us rather that supporting each other.

for the work you have done you should be millionaire, like some pastors! I hope you keep some web presence though

best

xx

David Free
November 11 2006, 4:07PM

Keith, you are so over-the-top. Grow up and become a confident man. Your post clearly indicate that you are immature and insecure.

keverix
November 11 2006, 4:20PM

Keith, this is Kevin Ross from Noble Magazine. I fully understand how exhausting it is to be the front man in a war where the soldiers rally in the trenches but fall silent on the battleground. Many of us simply don't have the courage and/or support systems to stand up. I’ve been guilty of this too. You were unconditionally loved growing up, it’s evident. I regret that, as an activist, you were not as appreciated as you should have been. There is a difference in being online, in line and on the front lines. You are a man who is on the front line and you are WAY ahead of your time.
Great job Keith. now go out there and shake up the world in a broader perspective. Don’t give up on us, as Donny Hathaway sang, Someday, We’ll ALL be Free! and you deserve credit for a part of that. I love you for your strength, courage and knowledge and I am honored to personally know you as well. As Ever, Kev

James
November 11 2006, 4:32PM

Congratulations Keith!!!!!

I'm excited that you've choosen to make a decision that puts Keith and his needs first. I've done the same thing recently; and, although, all will NOT understand or appreciate your decision, just as long as YOU have peace with your decision and have your support system (and please know that you do - - folks care and praying for and with you Keith) around you, that's all that matters.

To echo most of the other comments, I first came out to myself in 1995 and have been getting stronger and stronger as the years go past . .must in part to following (not stalking-smile) you. Thanks for being a voice for those of us who didn't know we had a voice or weren't quite certain how to effectively use our voices.

May God continue to richy (in all areas of your life) Bless you!!!!!!!

James

Al
November 11 2006, 4:33PM

Keith,
Conratulations on beginning a new chapter in your life and thank you for being such an inspiration in my own life. I've said often that you truly do God's work and your service to the gay community is admirable. You've been a champion and a voice for the community when it was so badly needed. I hope that others of us continue the work that you've begun.

Ty
November 11 2006, 5:18PM

Boo, I just found your site recently after reading your book which was given to me as a gift from a friend. this is one of the best sites for out, black gay men, so, hopefully you will keep it up and running. I know what its like to reach that point when you want to buy a house and get into the regular routine and start investing and saving for retirement, so, God speed to you!

greg
November 11 2006, 8:20PM

Congratulations on reaching an exciting new chapter in your life. Do you have an outline for your work of fiction ? I'm looking forward to all of your future creative output. It will be provocative,thought provoking, and stimulating, I'm sure. Will you also continue wrestling?

Hamilton
November 12 2006, 1:43AM

Keith,

Visiting your site as helped educate and close some of the wounds created when my cousin passed from AIDS a few years back. While living in Japan at the time, I search to understand what he was going through and how I could be there for him though miles and a ocean apart. Somehow, I came across your site. First, I was toughed by the way you opened up to your visitors by showing your childhood pictures and how you excelled in life, although there are somethings that may exceed my taste, I do enjoy your writing. I mostly visit your site when I think of him. Take care Keith and if by chance Albuquerque, NM is on the horizon please let us know, I would not want to miss an opportunity to meet you. Peace be with you and yours

Hamilton

joshua rivers
November 12 2006, 2:25AM

Keith, before you go, i'd love to hear your thoughts on who will take your place. Who does Keith Boykin plan to "pass the torch" to? I think that should be your next post. If we arent looking to you anymore, who should we be looking to?

Joshua Rivers
Brooklyn, New York

Wil
November 12 2006, 9:24AM

*****************************

Keith, please do a grand finale before you bow out from activism. One more great burst of bravery, energy, and whoopass before you go. Please.

How about, Outing Black Pastors, part II ??? I think you've only scratched the surface.

******************************

Alvin
November 12 2006, 10:20AM

Thanks for the work and the service to the community. I wish you all the best with your new endeavours and congratulate you on the success in your past. Others will take up where you have laid a path. The Journey is not over, but your work has made it easier for those who will follow.

Alvin Agarrat

Adam
November 12 2006, 2:27PM

I have a hunch as to where you might be headed, Mr. Boykin. May I be among the first to toast the future first gay (out, anyway) African-American President of the USA? You got what it takes Keith, if it's part of your dream we are all with you. God bless and keep us posted.

Eric
November 12 2006, 2:55PM

Keith,

As a young black gay man who considers himself to be a public intellectual/activist, let me thank you for all of the years of service you have given us and for being a good role model for young Black gay men such as myself to build on as we continue to struggle alongside you for the liberation of all oppressed peoples, and Black LGBT/SGL communities in particular.

Life has taught me that we never truly leave organizing, so I doubt this is the last we'll here from you. People like you and I are called not by a cause, but by our ancestors to do this work, and so for that reason I am sure you will feel the unction to step forward again when the space is appropriate. Much love and blessings to you my brother.

Thinking of Joshua Rivers' post about who will take the mantle, I think it is awesome that there is a potential list of Black LGBT folks who can do just that. It speaks to the strides we have made.

best,
e

James
November 12 2006, 4:42PM

Keith,

Every since reading your book, Beyond the Downlow, I have been inspired by you and your work. I was supposed to be in Chicago this June to compete in tennis at the Gay Games, but my partner and I parted ways and I had some self-evaluation and reestablishing to do. I was really looking forward to meeting and talking with you. Instead, my friend Pierce Dyer, a 20-year-old white boy from Seattle, got to meet you and he told me all about you and the assisting he did with you at the Gay Games. Pierce was an event coordinator/assistant at the Gay Games. I believe he said he stayed at the same hotel as you too.....I'll have to talk to him agian. Anyhow, I also missed you when you came to Seattle to speak at the Langston Hughes Theater in promotion/education of your book, Beyond the Downlow. I was coaching a high school girls tennis team and we had an out of town game that day.....I didn't get back in time to catch your speech. I just want to take this time to say thank for all your dedication

carlos
November 12 2006, 6:58PM

Good luck on the next chapter of your life I hope it is as successful as the first.

John
November 12 2006, 7:09PM

Keith,
I have admired you and all your efforts since first becoming aquainted with your work three years ago. I've heard you speak twice and have read your book, Beyond the Down Low.

I so agree with you that we need to provide financial resources to more than our churches; political and community organizations need our help. I, for one, provide some financial help to my church but not at the level they would like as I give to many other significant organizations.

Thank you for ALL you do and best of success in ALL you choose to do in the future!

John

Robert K. Burns
November 12 2006, 7:44PM

Keith:

You have been an inspiration, from your days of the Leadership Forum, your visits to Cleveland to support the work of the Brothers Cirle, writings/publications and having the honor to sit next to at MSM consultations with the CDC, I truly appreciate the work you have done for our community!

I wish you the best!

R.K. Burns

Patrick
November 12 2006, 10:52PM

Dear Keith,

Over the years, you've done a wonderful job. Best wishes for your new chapter!!

Cocoa Rican
November 13 2006, 12:44AM

Wow Keith... I'm really saddened - almost scared really - to see you move on, but understand the reasons for your decision. Know that you are admired and loved... even when we don't know you personally. You deserve a financially secure and comfortable future. The best to you now and always.

Cocoa

Naijadude
November 13 2006, 1:00AM

Keith, I totally commend you and I was really inspired by your work. You have been a great inspiration, and you give so many people the will to do what they believe they cant do. I wish you goodluck in your next pursuit/chapter! The 20 years was commendable and I wish I could do better than that in my next 20 years!!

Ray.RR
November 13 2006, 2:13AM

Thanks Keith. I do not have an extensive knowledge of your work, but the first thing that really stuck out to me was when I was investigating a possible venture into journalism, and when I was looking what's out there in terms of black gay media and I stumbled on one of your pieces of what the black gay community needs in terms of media representation/voice. I was quite astounded because even before I did, you had already perfectly articulated my views. I recently started coming to your site again. I just want to say thanks, and we'll continue what you started. I wish you success and happiness. One.

DAVID A TOBIN
November 13 2006, 6:20AM

My ´BROTHER KEITH!

CONGRADS!!!!!!!!!!!
Hears is alway the diffucult part of being a perosn who as given so much to our commuinty. YOU CARE!!!!!!!!!!! I wish you peace and blessing on this part of your life. Just take a moment get a tissue out put in Oleta Adams version of ´´Éverything Must Change´´ and let it go!
Change is a slow thing with great promis of a new day
love and joy to your life
David A. Tobin

omodiende
November 13 2006, 10:44AM

interesting, as I was reading this I had George Michael's Freedom playing in the background - his first solo break from the MTV pop image and the proud declaration of taking the first steps towards a new life, a new identity, and the need to be true to self.

I am so glad you have reached such a point, and I agree we need to support (financially and socially) our activists.

I am not sure if this decision was finally reached after you recent bad reception at a college.... but even if it was, it is time to move one and do bigger things

damone
November 13 2006, 12:01PM

Greetings Keith,

Thanks for everything and for your recent decision and for always keeping it REAL... You are so loved and admired by me and countless others. Continue on my brother and shine your Light!

Peace & Blessings

taylor Siluwé
November 13 2006, 1:25PM

Passing the torch is never easy.

We wanna keep running until our heart explodes, because that's why we picked up the torch in the first place--Our passion for what's right, as you said.

But passion hardly pays the bills. And after all is said, done and swept under the fridge, no one is gonna secure our financial security but us.

Growing older can seem bleak for black gay men, we certainly need to make as much money as we can to soften that transition.

Kudo's to you, Keith. You've run a long way with that torch and have been an inspiration for a generation.

As for the future, well ...Break a Leg, kid.

~

Jaye
November 13 2006, 1:46PM

Good Luck my brotha and God Bless!!

Will
November 13 2006, 5:54PM

Good Luck.

Thank you for sharing so much of your life and time with people you've never met.

mr cnn
November 13 2006, 6:13PM

i commend your greatly for your years of unswerving service to the gay community ,Your passion has cretainly created change within the community . i have been inspired by you and i wish you well in you future ventures

Aaron Ward
November 13 2006, 6:33PM

You have carried sooooo many of us for sooooo long that some of us were "actually" starting to feel guilty.
I am sure you know that although you will move yourself from the forefront the work has become a part of your natural movement, your Being. No longer a forethought or a plan of action but a natural reaction stoked by wisdom and experience that will come as naturally as breathing. I worked with kids and their parents for over 10 years and just became tired of the day to day contact but see that I still do much of what I did before except it is incorporated in me making the life I enjoy and I really didn't notice until reading this blog.LOL
You are loved, you are appreciated and you deserve your heart's desires and even better!

dee
November 13 2006, 8:01PM

I like so many other who have not commented on this site but have lived their lives through it say thank you. For myself being a black gay male was difficult, but coming across your site while searching for another great gay author I was taken away, here was a site that was created by a gay male of african decent, and intelligent, and not the common type that people address us as, you know if your are gay you must be acting like a women. But you showed them as I do daily, that being gay is not a mistake and that we live in this society as you do, and have many of the same issues that you come across. I will not make this any longer, but just to say THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME SEE THE WORLD THROUGH OUR EYES. You are a true inspiration for me and I am sure other. I wish you will well and god bless.

Makheda
November 14 2006, 2:05AM

Wow! I got to hear about you by sheer accident and everyday i couldn't wait to engage with your mind on some topic or the other. You gave a fresh perspetive on everything and what was more inspiring was the fact that you made your intellect accessible!! I suppose passing the torch to us the younger black gay generation is the next natural level....thank you for acknowleding our potential.

One

nhlanhla
November 14 2006, 6:30AM

Pioneer. Probably one of your favourite words. That's what you became.

Don't stop writing novels, however; for your own sake as well?

JP
November 14 2006, 9:00AM

Keith you are such an inspiration to so many people. Even though your presence on the front lines of our continuing fight will be sorely missed, your spirit will remain in the hearts of those who have watched, followed and prayed for you as you pulled us up and pushed obstacles out of our way. Being a midwest brotha, a lot of my exposure to current events, ideas and initiatives in the African-American LGBT community are limited to this website. But believe me, since I've started reading this and others like it (Jasmyne, Rod, etc.), it's given me the inspriation to get involved here in my own community. I've started a business and now sit on the board of a local LGBT Community Organization....all due to the inspiration and encouragement you put in the words you write and the experiences you share. Thank you. Much Love and Respect.

Rev.Tommie Watkins, Jr
November 14 2006, 6:09PM

Keith,

My prayers and thoughts are with you! Thanks for hanging in there and for all the invisible work that you have done.

blessings!

Aaron Ward
November 14 2006, 6:18PM

For those of us willing to really show Keith some appreciation I think it would be befitting to become monthly or annual contributors to NBJC. I dont make as much of most of you big ballers on here but I can spare 25 a month. Thats two less drinks at the club, a healthier heart and help towards my peace in this country of mine.

twan86695
November 14 2006, 7:26PM

Kieth,

You are truly an inspiration. You have planted good seed and now it's time for your seed to grow and blossom into a beautiful garden.

Be blessed!

Dean Elzinga
November 15 2006, 11:34PM

Hey Keith, congrats from me and my 'husband' Ron Buckmire for your unflagging work over the years. Now go ahead. Flag a little. Do other things! Run for President. (Again.) Write a couple books!

Do I hear writing sounds? I better be hearing writing sounds. Don't make me come up there!

--d

N4R
November 17 2006, 4:17PM

Say it aint so…

Keith this was unexpected but very fitting. It is so true you have given so much of yourself to gay activism. Now it is time for you to get you just dessert.

You and the many wonderful, successful, and progressive brothers I have met over the past year and half has been a great inspiration to me. Many of you have made the current N4R who he is today. You especially I have to stay Thank You!!! Through much of your direction I have grown dramatically over these years. I have loved every minute of it.

Not sure if I ever shared this with you but I remember the first time I learned the name Keith Boykin. I attended a conference at NYU with a few of my fraternity brothers and one of them introduced me to Frank Leon Roberts. He was in love with Frank. When we stepped off he told me I just met the next Keith Boykin. He said that as if I was suppose to know who you was.

Kyle
November 18 2006, 12:48PM

A sincere thanks for all you have done over the years. As a college student, your first book, One more River to Cross, inspired and changed my life. It was what I truly needed in the time of my inner chaos. I thank you for it.

Since then I think you have helped to become an articulate and postive representation of one element of our community.

I think you have issued a challenge. Leaders and activists are often underappreciated and underpaid for the things that they do. As someone who chooses not to take that visible role, but benefits greatly for their work, I think I owe it to the universe to put my resources to work. I would be very interested in hearing about orgainzations that you feel support our community and that need our help.

N4R
November 18 2006, 5:09PM

(N4R continued...)

Sorry at the time I didn’t but after that meeting a made a point to find out. Since then I have been glued to your page daily. Once we were introduced a few weeks later I knew there was something special about you.

Yes Keith you are special. Many would love to achieve half as much as you have in 15 short years. You have made you mark and we look forward to continuing your legacy. More importantly I look forward to continuing your legacy. I found it interesting that after 95 comments to this post everyone asked, “Who is next to lead the fight?” “Who is going to continue where you left off?” Everyone wants someone else to be a leader, someone else to make a change in this world. Well I am different. I know that I must be the change I wish to make in this world. Damn Gandhi was a genius with that one…

N4R
November 19 2006, 10:53AM

(N4R completed)
A year ago December at your feature in Derrick L. Briggs book club I told you I would be the next Keith Boykin and I believe that. Thanks for the inspiration and look forward to receiving your guidance in the future.

Peace

Antar
N4R

BuddahDesmond
November 20 2006, 9:04PM

Leader. Fighter. Trailblazer. Inspiration. Those are just a few (of so many) words to describe you. Your dedication, effort, and commitment to justice, equality, and seeking out the greater good in our community (and society) will never be forgotten. Like the many before us you continued to open doors. You led the way. And now it's time to pass the torch. As we honor you, we should look within ourselves to see what we can do to make the world we live in better for us all. Thanks again Keith. I wish you continued success in all of your future endeavors!

hamadi
November 21 2006, 12:20AM

Let me first say I have great respect and admiration for you and I have always looked forward to visiting your web site. You have been courageous and inspiring and definitely a blessing for black folks. Now I must say I have never agreed with your politics. I am neither a democrat or repulican and I do not believe the system has anything to offer black people but the same old soup warmed over. I also believe that until we learn to act independently of both the democrats and repulican and move and agenda that really deals with issues that affect black folks, and stop worring about whose going to win the next election, we are going to see the horrendous suffering and oppresion of our people continue and escalate.

Nevertheless, Keith I love you and I know you will continue you good work from your own perspective and belief, which I respect. Despite the fact that disagree with you, you impress me as black man that has my back peace and the best of luck.

Fred V
November 22 2006, 8:43PM

Keith, I thank you for all of your efforts... All of the best to you!!

Leonard B
December 3 2006, 9:47PM

Thanks for being my voice. (Closeted 55 year old BGM)