A Visit to Black Gay London

By Keith Boykin, in pop culture
Tuesday, April 4 2006, 11:40AM

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I spent the weekend in London for the 20th annual London Gay and Lesbian Film Festival. I was brought over by Topher Campbell and Ajamu from rukus! Federation, a black LGBT arts program in Britain. While I was there, I had a chance to meet dozens of black gays and lesbians in England and to learn a little more about the culture of being black and gay in the U.K.

Ajamu and Topher Show Me London

After a 7 hour flight from New York, I arrived in London Friday evening just in time to drop off my bags at the hotel and head out with Ajamu and Topher. I stayed at the Selfridge Hotel, a few blocks away from the extremely well-guarded American Embassy, which was hosting U.S. Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice at the same time. While Condi and her British counterpart Jack Straw were talking about Iraq, I was on my way out to a local club called The Hospital. We had a few drinks, talked about life and retired for the evening.

Saturday's schedule was packed. Topher and Ajamu picked me up at the hotel and we rode out to Brixton. After walking around the local market, we sat down for brunch at a restaurant called The Lounge. It was my first visit to Brixton, the predominantly black neighborhood in London, and it was much more colorful and eclectic than I expected it to be. I think I expected it to be a British version of Harlem, but instead it was its own thing entirely.

After brunch, we took a car back to central London for an interview with Troy Andrew Fairclough, a prominent playwright and a reporter for MOC magazine, a black gay publication based in London. Trevor had read my web site before and was well versed in black LGBT issues in the States. That's when I began to realize how much more the British know about us Americans than we know about them.

The Down Low in Black Britain

From there, we were off to the site of the 20th London Lesbian and Gay Film Festival, which by the way is still going on until April 12. I sat in the green room for awhile and chatted with Simon Nelson, a well known British activist who was also a part of the event I was doing.

The event begin with a screening of The DL Chronicles by American filmmakers Quincy Lenear and Deondray Gossett. We watched what I believe is the pilot episode in which Wes is seduced by his brother-in-law. After the film, Topher, Simon and I took the stage for an hour-long conversation about the down low, and all of us agreed that the issue had been overblown. But I liked the episode of The DL Chronicles, and I particularly liked the way in which the married man was portrayed sympathetically with understanding of his struggle rather than the typical sensationalized demonization of the black man as the evil predator against an unsuspecting black female partner.

The book signing after the film discussion was also popular. The bookstore quickly sold out of all the books so I was left to shake hands with many of the people who wanted to get one. At the end of the line was an old friend I hadn't expected to be there. It was Robert Banks Ramirez. He lives in Los Angeles, and I met him 10 years ago. Now he's a film maker with his own film, Saint Martin de 4th Street, about a young boy of black and Mexican descent who doesn't like his mother's new girlfriend.

London Nightlife

I invited Robert to join us for dinner that night, and we sat and talked about old times and caught up on what each of us had been doing over the years. We were joined by more than a dozen participants and organizers of the film festival at a local restaurant. And from there, Robert, Topher and I went to a nightclub called "Queer Nation," in the heart of Brixton.

If I ever thought that Brixton and Harlem were the same, the experience at Queer Nation disabused me of that notion. Located on Brighton Terrace in central Brixton, Queer Nation is a Saturday night party at a nightclub called Sub Station. What surprised me most was the composition of the crowd, which was mostly white. Although there were quite a few black men in the crowd, the white patrons clearly outnumbered the blacks, even in a space in the middle of Brixton.

The DJ played mostly house music and club music and we danced until 4 or 5 in the morning before returning home in a taxi that charged us 30 pounds ($60 U.S.) for a ride back to the city.

I returned to Sub Station the following night and it was a totally different place. On Sunday nights, the place becomes virtually all black and gay and the name of the space is Caribana (which has also been written about by other Americans). The music on Sunday was a mix of reggae, dancehall and soca with a few familiar hip hop beats thrown in for good measure. But the crowd was very young. Most of the black men there seemed to be 18 to 25, and they dressed, danced and carried on just like the 18-25 year-olds here in New York. In fact, but for their accents, many of the young people in the club looked as though they would be quite comfortable on Christopher Street in Greenwich Village.

Black and Gay in London

If Saturday introduced me to gay London, Sunday helped me to understand black gay London. Sunday afternoon I met with several dozen black gay men and lesbians who came out to a discussion at another local bar. Topher moderated the discussion. He and I sat on a small stage in the front of the bar and talked about black gay life and took questions from the audience. We covered a lot of territory and talked about everything from Noah's Arc to Dirty Laundry to President Bush.

I got the impression that many of the people in the community were looking to black gay Americans for inspiration, but at the same time they were hoping that we in the U.S. would be more aware of the lives and struggles of people outside our own country. Once again it was clear to me that black Britons knew a lot more about black Americans than we know about them. And Black gay Britons also seem to know a lot more about black gay Americans than we know about our British counterparts.

After Sunday's discussion, a group of us walked around the corner to a nearby restaurant called Balan's. I recognized the restaurant as soon as I walked in. It was the first place Nathan and I had gone to eat when we visited London a few years ago. I met several interesting people that night for dinner. First there was Valerie Mason-John, also known as "Queenie," who pulled up to the restaurant on a colorful bicycle. She is one of the most visible and active black lesbians in London. Then there was Christopher, a writer and poet who is helping to bring out black gay culture in England. And finally there was Dennis Carney, a black gay activist who had led the challenge against homophobic lyrics in music.

Given the visibility of Britain's Peter Tatchell, a well-known white gay activist known for his criticism of homophobic dancehall music, it was refreshing to know there were visible black gay Britons who had been leading the charge as well.

It was an inspiring experience and a wonderful weekend. Except for quick peeps outside the taxicabs, I didn't see a single major tourist site during my trip. We passed by the Houses of Parliament, Buckingham Palace, Hyde Park and the London Bridge without much notice. Instead it was the people of London who moved me. The black lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people of London.

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Andrew Prince

I was most honoured to meet you in London on Sunday and to hear you talk about your experiences.

As you might have noticed from the discussions, we share the same passions regarding the well-being and of black gays, lesbians, bisexual and transgendered people, whether they are in the US, England, the Caribbean or Africa.

Again, thank you for imparting valuable and practical insights on the way knowledge enriches our lives.

Kindest regards,
Andrew Prince

nahtan serious

Well perhaps one day you will make a similar trip to the caribbean. Glad that you had a great time in London. the last time I was there I went to a club called BOOTYLICIOUS which was also had a quite young crowd. You did not make it to Kudos bar? Or is that closed now?

As usual I am inspired by your willingness to put yourself OUT there!

Douglas

Keith,

Next time in London, do check out Bootylicious. It seems to be what's going on in London right now. Lots of caribbean influences there. And ofcourse, Kudos, which is like the old standard. I'm surprised they didn't take you to the Brixtonian. Oh well, maybe the next trip.

Doug-

cardigan

Keith,
small world but im happy you met/know my friend Dennis from Brixton, London. Dennis's passion for his culture and his lifestyle have been a great influence in my life as a black gay man in the States. I often hear of his many accomplishments for our stuggles. Its nice to know that you connected with him. cheers

Cardigan, Chicago

Marlon Reina

Hello Mr. Boykin,

I had planned to visit London last weekend to be able to meet you, but working appointments didn't permit that. I'm a black gay radio-journalist, writer and activist living in Amsterdam, Netherlands and was born and raised in Curacao, Caribbean.

Ajamu is adear friend of mine and I would have loved to be there this weekend. Also to talk about the differences and similiarities we have as black gays and lesbians in different corners of the world. It was very nice to read your travelreport and I have to add some things. For example, I was really inspired by the Black Gay movement of the States I learned about by books and video's. I saw 'Tongues Untied' and read poets like essex Hemphill when I was 22 years old and was very inspired. The Black American Gay experience was important in my devellopment. Later I discoverd own sources and more Caribbean inspiration. I read your blog regularly and really think we should keep on knowing and learning from each other.
Last year in June I visited the States for the first time. I went to New York for a week with friends and had a very good time. By beeing among African Americans helped understand some of the things I find so strange in the culture. It was a pitty I didn't went to the States before, for example when my sister was studying in Athens, Georgia. Keep up the good work and for sure at least our work will meet.

chris-leo

i'm glad you brought up the subject of homophobic lyrics in gay clubs. it puzzles me that this is an issue at all, since DJ's pretty much hold ALL of the cards with their playlists and can shut a song down.

i'm probably one of the few people who pays very little attention to the lyrics when i'm in a club, but i stood aghast in Bona Fide last friday night and listened to the most hateful caribbean song i've ever heard, a song calling for my murder. it wasn't even hidden in the dialect; it was clear as hell.

i guess that was my oprah wake-up call, but the line has to be drawn somewhere. i simply am not partying ANYMORE to such songs - either caribbean or hip hop. as for Bona Fide, i'm going right to the source on this particular mistake.

but i'm asking everyone here. has it come to this??? do i have to stand in a club now and pay attention to lyrics, 'cause somebody might be playing something that calls for the murder of me and everyone in the club??? there's too much music out here for that to be played in my presence on the few nights i go out. and if push comes to shove, i'll just stay home.

honestly, we must be the most self-loathing people on this planet to be dancing to our own execution, just 'cause it's got a hot beat.

W.T.F??????

Ron Lee

Well,Keith you are living my fantasy.It's my dream to one day visit or live in London. It's where Americans who are tired of the polarization & stagnation in our National politics go. And boy do I want to do the Black British scene from Black Chuches,Resturants & Clubs, Gay & straight. As I said before if we can come together here in America ,as well as,bringing our SGL people accross the Diapora we can be unstopable. ONE-LOVE.

Derek Fairclough

Hi Keith,

It was nice meeting you at both events and it was interesting to hear your views on the "Down Low" issue and other topics, especially homophobia in general society, the black community and church and specific countries like Nigeria and Jamaica... At the club event on Sunday, you had to deal with some quite wide-ranging topics and I found you had a very balanced, practical and critical approach. Very interesting. Good too to read your comments above that we seem to be looking to the US for a way forward on many of these issues - we need to see ourselves as capable of providing our own vision and leadership - we certainly have the strength of character...

Peace,
Derek

Patrik-Ian

Hey Keith!
I literally left London the day you arrived. I'd been there for four months (I now have a place there and call it my official 2nd home). Glad you enjoyed your visit. London is indeed my favorite city, the perfect multi-culti destination when I feel the need to flee the fabulous but plasticine veneer of L.A. I highly recommend it to all as a cool vacation spot. And Bootylicious is THE spot! Hot once-a-month black gay club...
Peace, Patrik

Cheikh

I attended both of the talks orgaised by Rukus. Well done to Ajamu and Topher for organising Keith Boykin's visit. It was a short visit and I don't think the true dimension of Keith Boykin's work was demonstrated or adequately celebrated. Keith Boykin and other leaders need to come back and speak to bigger audiences, especially the UK black media. UK Black gay men and women unfortunately are still struggling to be properly heard and organised. We need more exchanges and more cross fertilisation with brothers and sisters in the US to ensure that we have more organised and influential groups in the future.